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Quinton Quiroz is a sergeant with the Brownsville Police Depart. He was married to gynecologist Dr. Cynthia Meyers. They have three daughters. They went through an explosive divorce several years ago. The collateral damage continues to this day as evidenced by the following post. Quiroz is responding to a Diana Mendoza who asserts, "This isn't about your kids. You're manufacturing a problem because you are very angry. Your kids are fine and you know that. Are you?"
In these tumultuous times when couples are going at each other's throats because cabin fever is driving them crazy, it is reassuring to know that even under the best of conditions tormented ex-spouses can summon a fury that may never extinguish itself. The embers keep burning.For the record, we don't have a dog in this fight. At The Murphy Report we are reading our Facebook feed since we are suspended from commenting on this drama. In the past we have endured the wounds and scars of a massacred mongrel after all the blood-letting. We are reprinting Quiroz's remarks because he does raise a valid point: Is Meyers using good sense taking her children on the road when keeping them at home limits their exposure to other individuals in these dangerous times?
When you think that the woman you most loved in the world has wronged you and then puts your children in a situation that not only threatens their health but their lives too, does that give a man with a cuckold mentality the right to say, "You fuckin' bitch!" Writes a rip-roaring Quiroga:
"I have been throwing much deserved shade at my ex-wife Dr. Cynthia Meyers for taking very selfish risks with my children during this pandemic. I have to shine a light on comments left to my post, comments made by Diana Mendoza.
"In her post, Diana said that I was 'manufacturing a problem' and that 'my kids were fine' after I used Facebook to call attention to Cynthia's ongoing social distance parties. She has been having social distance parties for months and I have been complaining to her about them for months.
"I finally had to do something and told Cynthia that if she did not agree to stop these parties, I was going to post her exploits on Facebook. I warned her several times and it is not something that I wanted to do. To me, Facebook is an important avenue to address social issues, even when these issues are very personal.
"While calling the police or calling CPS may have its place, I doubt the cops will be able to do much and CPS likely has more serious cases for which to use their needed resources. While making these complaints to the police or CPS might start a paper trail that I could use in court, writing this Facebook post also creates a paper trail that I can use in court.
"Notes about events are admissible evidence in court. Hopefully, however, we won't have to go to court and this trial will be won in the court of public opinion. I say hopefully because Cynthia sued the shit out of me in her divorce. This loving father is now broke and busted and would not be able to afford going to trial.
"As mentioned, Cynthia has been having these social distance parties for months. Even though she is a front-line physician on the pandemic, Cynthia’s latest whiz-bang middle-finger to the idea that small family gatherings are one of the biggest culprits in the spread of the virus is to decide to go on a vacation with the kids in order to have social distance parties with her extended family in Austin.
"In her text message informing me of her planned vacation during which she intends to have social distance parties, Cynthia said that she was going to 'nearby' Austin for a week with the children.
"'Nearby' Austin????? This gives you a picture into how out-of-touch Cynthia actually is. What I mean is that I believe Cynthia actually thinks Austin is nearby because it is not Brazil or Argentina, the type of trip she usually takes once or twice a year.
"Cynthia also consulted with her attorney who, according to Cynthia, told her that she has the 'right' to take the kids on this trip. Likely, I will have to file a complaint to the medical association to register her questionable judgement during the pandemic. To advise someone that they have a right to take children on a vacation during this pandemic seems extremely reckless.
"So Ms. Mendoza, I just wanted to give you a little more insight into this problem that you say I am 'manufacturing' because you think that I am angry. I just need to invert your sentence structure a little for the sake of accuracy and decency.
"I am angry, not because of a 'manufactured problem' as you say, but because Cynthia is incapable of putting the welfare of her children ahead of her very selfish desires for a social life and for vacation travel during this pandemic and because I am powerless to stop her.
"Since this is now my official transcript that I will provide the court if need be, you will be hearing more details coming soon unless Cynthia decides to finally put the needs and safety of her children before her own.
"As I have told Cynthia many times, I am happy to raise the kids. I will raise the kids and she can take all the vacations she wants and go to all the parties that will fill her little princess heart’s desire as well.
"'Nearby' Austin????? This gives you a picture into how out-of-touch Cynthia actually is. What I mean is that I believe Cynthia actually thinks Austin is nearby because it is not Brazil or Argentina, the type of trip she usually takes once or twice a year.
"Cynthia also consulted with her attorney who, according to Cynthia, told her that she has the 'right' to take the kids on this trip. Likely, I will have to file a complaint to the medical association to register her questionable judgement during the pandemic. To advise someone that they have a right to take children on a vacation during this pandemic seems extremely reckless.
"So Ms. Mendoza, I just wanted to give you a little more insight into this problem that you say I am 'manufacturing' because you think that I am angry. I just need to invert your sentence structure a little for the sake of accuracy and decency.
"I am angry, not because of a 'manufactured problem' as you say, but because Cynthia is incapable of putting the welfare of her children ahead of her very selfish desires for a social life and for vacation travel during this pandemic and because I am powerless to stop her.
"Since this is now my official transcript that I will provide the court if need be, you will be hearing more details coming soon unless Cynthia decides to finally put the needs and safety of her children before her own.
"As I have told Cynthia many times, I am happy to raise the kids. I will raise the kids and she can take all the vacations she wants and go to all the parties that will fill her little princess heart’s desire as well.
"You have not heard me complain about my divorce for some time. But I think you need an update. Believe me, I would much rather not be mentioning this, but my ex leaves me no option--either hire a lawyer which I cannot really afford because she sued me into dust in the divorce or turn to social media in order to argue my case.
"One of the current problems with her care for the children is that she is inviting people over for parties during this stay-at-home isolation order. I have tried to convince her through many text messages to stop doing this because she is putting my children at risk and there are heightened conditions in this particular case.
"As a last resort, I have threatened to either call CPS on her or to publicly shame her into acting responsibly. I have warned her for several weeks that if she does not stop hosting these parties, I would bring this information to the public. I have decided to not call CPS because I do not want to actually hurt Cynthia; I just want her to act responsibly and to stop endangering the kids.
"Many of you who know Cynthia think that she is this model of responsibility. However, what you do not know is that she is one of those people who thinks that rules do not apply to her and she is selfish in the sort of way that would make many of your jaws drop by flying to South America to visit Iguazu Falls the same week as our divorce while my children left voice messages crying and screaming wanting to see me because they were so shocked by being forced by the courts to be away from me.
"I still have some of these voice messages from these poor kids. This is one of just many examples of her extravagance. For the several weeks that I have been trying to stop her from inviting people to her house for parties in the middle of this pandemic, she tells me that she either does not read my texts or she tells me that I am 'micromanaging her care of the children.'
"One night last week my youngest girl texted me at midnight scared because her mother was not at home. Cynthia 'claimed' to be looking for the cat. However, the cat sleeps outside, not inside. I am pretty sure she left the house in order to see someone and that she is leaving the children at home alone when she does this.
"As I have told her, I am happy if she has a relationship, but if the relationship means putting my children at risk, let ME raise these kids. Cynthia's behavior has me extremely concerned about the children's welfare to say the least.
"I realize that all of our lives are complicated right now and many of us use Facebook as a way of lightening the day, so I am sorry to drop this interpersonal conflict in your news feed. However, I know that Cynthia cares a lot about what society thinks about her. I do not have many options to try to convince her to stop this very reckless behavior.
"In case you are wondering how I know so much about what she is doing, I live down the street from her address. As a result, when she has these parties, I can actually hear them as they take place. I live close to my children in order to see them each day. I take them on bike rides, jogging, walking, basketball games, teach them Spanish, assist them with their homework and other things meant to enrich their lives in a time when they need involvement.
"One of the current problems with her care for the children is that she is inviting people over for parties during this stay-at-home isolation order. I have tried to convince her through many text messages to stop doing this because she is putting my children at risk and there are heightened conditions in this particular case.
"As a last resort, I have threatened to either call CPS on her or to publicly shame her into acting responsibly. I have warned her for several weeks that if she does not stop hosting these parties, I would bring this information to the public. I have decided to not call CPS because I do not want to actually hurt Cynthia; I just want her to act responsibly and to stop endangering the kids.
"Many of you who know Cynthia think that she is this model of responsibility. However, what you do not know is that she is one of those people who thinks that rules do not apply to her and she is selfish in the sort of way that would make many of your jaws drop by flying to South America to visit Iguazu Falls the same week as our divorce while my children left voice messages crying and screaming wanting to see me because they were so shocked by being forced by the courts to be away from me.
"I still have some of these voice messages from these poor kids. This is one of just many examples of her extravagance. For the several weeks that I have been trying to stop her from inviting people to her house for parties in the middle of this pandemic, she tells me that she either does not read my texts or she tells me that I am 'micromanaging her care of the children.'
"One night last week my youngest girl texted me at midnight scared because her mother was not at home. Cynthia 'claimed' to be looking for the cat. However, the cat sleeps outside, not inside. I am pretty sure she left the house in order to see someone and that she is leaving the children at home alone when she does this.
"As I have told her, I am happy if she has a relationship, but if the relationship means putting my children at risk, let ME raise these kids. Cynthia's behavior has me extremely concerned about the children's welfare to say the least.
"I realize that all of our lives are complicated right now and many of us use Facebook as a way of lightening the day, so I am sorry to drop this interpersonal conflict in your news feed. However, I know that Cynthia cares a lot about what society thinks about her. I do not have many options to try to convince her to stop this very reckless behavior.
"In case you are wondering how I know so much about what she is doing, I live down the street from her address. As a result, when she has these parties, I can actually hear them as they take place. I live close to my children in order to see them each day. I take them on bike rides, jogging, walking, basketball games, teach them Spanish, assist them with their homework and other things meant to enrich their lives in a time when they need involvement.
"They are truly the center of my world. I appreciate each of you who has taken the time to read this post. If Cynthia agrees to act more responsibly, I will immediately take this post down. If she disagrees, I will continue to post more details of her irresponsible behavior. Hopefully, more details will not be needed."
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